In the busy routines of life, couples often neglect romance – especially after they have been married for several years. Here are some suggestions of ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day and the love between husband and wife. Some are simple and some are extravagant but they are all fun.
Simple Valentine Surprises for a Spouse
Simple is often good when it comes to romance. It’s all about being thoughtful and considerate and showing that you care. In the right circumstances, a single rose can mean as much as an elaborate bouquet. Here are some simple ideas for Valentine’s Day:
- Decorate the living room with red balloons and streamers as a surprise for when your husband or wife walks through in the morning.
- Buy four or five small boxes and fill them with chocolates, nuts and raisins. Hide these in places where your spouse will discover them throughout the course of Valentine's Day.
- Write out a list of why you love your partner and leave it on the dining table with a red rose.
- Prepare a chocolate fondue with strawberries, cherries and other fruits and indulge by candlelight.
- Organise a fun evening playing mini-golf, watching romantic movies or playing board games together.
Proclaim to the World that Your Spouse is your Valentine
Here are some fun ways of making your husband or wife feel special in front of others:
- Scatter rose petals along the driveway and tie a Valentine banner in the front garden proclaiming your undying love for your partner.
- If you live in an apartment block, make a poster stating your love and hang it on your door or next to your letterbox.
- Call into a radio program that your spouse listens to and ask them to play a favorite song and dedicate it to them.
Elaborate Ideas for Valentine’s Day
Sometimes it’s good to splash out and have a celebration that will never be forgotten. Here are some ideas to inspire creativity:
- Plan a surprise trip that is out of the ordinary and something you may have discussed as a couple many times. This may be a ride in a hot-air balloon, a river cruise or a scenic helicopter flight.
- Book a romantic meal in an expensive restaurant and organise a violinist or singer to come to your table and play or sing a favorite song.
Valentine’s Day is a perfect time for married couples to express their love to each other and reaffirm their commitment. Doing this in creative ways means the memories will be long lasting. The celebration may be simple, public or elaborate but with some thought and planning, it will be special to your spouse.
Debbie Roome - Debbie Roome is an award-winning freelance writer, journalist and novelist with over 25 years experience.
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