There are ways to help a child with Asperger’s Syndrome cope with daily life. Understanding the condition, is the first step in implementing this process.
Overprotecting a Child with Asperger’s Syndrome
There is a tendency to overprotect these children. Excuses are often made for inappropriate behaviour and discipline is neglected. This allows a shift in authority, with the child gaining more and more control. It is important to discipline and set boundaries to prevent this from happening.
Physical Pain and Asperger’s Syndrome
Individuals with Asperger’s Syndrome may have difficulty in verbally expressing pain or pinpointing its location. This can be overcome by using picture aids, written language and a scale of pain levels. If a child appears to be in pain, draw a body outline and ask him to show you on the diagram where the pain is coming from.
Depression and Asperger’s Syndrome
Moodiness and sensitivity are signs of Asperger’s Syndrome and if a child becomes increasingly sad, moody and irritable, he may be sliding into depression. This is often compounded by rejection from peers and a sense of not belonging. It is important to seek medical help, as well as working with the child. Encourage him to discuss anxieties and reaffirm him in as many ways as possible.
Obsessions and Asperger’s Syndrome
One of the signs of Asperger’s Syndrome is an unusually intense preoccupation with certain objects or interests. The child may have an extremely advanced knowledge on this topic and the interest can border on obsession. It is easy to tire of hearing about the same subject all the time but try and see it as a form of communication. Interact with the child and create opportunities for field trips and further exploration. It is also important to insist the child takes breaks from his passion and concentrates on school work and household chores.
Transition and Change and Asperger’s Syndrome
Children with Asperger’s Syndrome, generally find change extremely hard. They like routine, and changing school or moving to a new house can be very upsetting. The best way to handle change is by sharing information with the child. Go through what will be happening, and if possible, take him to see the new house or school and allow him to walk through and have a look. If a relative is dying, visit a cemetery and discuss the implications of death, so the separation won’t be so great a shock.
Asperger’s Syndrome is a complex condition and each individual presents with a different mix of symptoms. With understanding, it is possible to help these children lead fulfilled lives and feel more comfortable in company.
Recommended reading: The Everything Parent's Guide to Children with Aperger's Syndrome by William Stillman, F&W Publications, inc.
Debbie Roome - Debbie Roome is an award-winning freelance writer, journalist and novelist with over 25 years experience.
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