Valentine’s Day is thought to be named after an early Christian martyr. In modern day terms, Valentine’s Day is a time for couples to express romantic love to each other and renew their commitment. This is often accompanied by gifts and a special time together.
The Best Valentines Gifts to Give a Spouse
Valentine’s Day is traditionally associated with red hearts, cupid and doves. A few weeks before the event, stores fill shelves with all kinds of Valentine merchandise including chocolates, angels, red roses and heart-shaped boxes. While some of these may appear tacky, they can still be meaningful to the recipient.
Depending on the value the couple place on Valentine’s Day, other gifts could include the following:
- Perfume is always a good choice, especially if the spouse’s favourite fragrance is known.
- Jewellery is a romantic gift.
- Choose a silver frame or similar and give it with a photo of yourself inside.
- Men are generally more practical than their wives and may prefer a tool or something for their car.
- A gift voucher for an outing together is a good idea.
- Fruit baskets with a handwritten poem tucked inside.
- Sexy lingerie may work but be careful with this one.
- A floral arrangement embellished with hearts or cupids.
- A bunch of balloons with a letter, poem or voucher inside.
How to Give Valentine’s Gifts to Husbands and wives
It is traditional that a Valentine’s gift be given anonymously. It may fun to arrange for a parcel to be delivered to a spouse at work – but make sure they will be able to guess who it is from. Most will love the attention and envy from their co-workers when the gift is delivered.
Another idea is to set up a treasure hunt and leave the first clue on the breakfast table or in the bathroom. This can be loads of fun, especially if the spouse who organised it follows along.
Wrapping a gift in several layers of Valentine’s paper can add laughter as the spouse keeps expecting to come to the gift. Include a couple of forfeits in the layers such as requiring a kiss before opening the next one.
What Type of Valentine Dates can Spouses Arrange
It may take some organisation but it can be fun to plan a surprise day out for a Valentine’s celebration. Because Valentine’s Day is about love, an outing or date should be only for husband and wife. Here are some suggestions for romantic dates or outings:
- Go back to a favourite restaurant or spot from your dating days.
- Go to a place in your area that is associated with romance.
- Take your spouse to a romantic movie.
- Arrange a walk through a local park or botanic garden and end up with coffee and cake at a cafe.
- Visit a church and renew your marriage vows.
Marriage is about love, and Valentine’s Day is an occasion to celebrate romance. Finding the best gift for a husband or wife and arranging a special date can be a wonderful way to express love.
Debbie Roome - Debbie Roome is an award-winning freelance writer, journalist and novelist with over 25 years experience.
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